For the past three days, I have been the parent of six -
thanks to a dear friend who needed to leave town on short notice.
I never really wanted six kids,
but it was fun to see what it would have been like.
{All three of hers are younger than my youngest.}
I came away with an appreciation for those of you
who have that many,
and a lot of fun memories of the "toddler years."
Just for fun, I thought I would list
The Top Ten Things I Miss About Having Toddlers:
#10 - Physical Exhaustion
Sound crazy?
You have to have teenagers
to understand that the
physical exhaustion of having toddlers
is nothing
compared to the emotional exhaustion
of having teenagers.
#9 - Utter Pandemonium
I do get to experience this one once in a while
{picture 6 teenage boys playing Settlers
and eating their way through your refrigerator},
but there's something special
about the kind of pandemonium that toddlers create.
#8 - Conversations with the Television
In our house we yell at the television
{think football},
but we never ever have sweet conversations with the television.
I miss that.
#7 - Pointing at Cows
Between us and the boys' schools there is a lovely field
full of cows.
I love those cows,
but I'm the only one in my family who gets excited about them.
Not so with toddlers...
they love cows too!
#6 - Squeals of Joy
{picture the field of cows here}
One great thing about toddlers is that you always know
One great thing about toddlers is that you always know
when they're happy.
We have squeals around here too
{think big brothers teasing little sister},
but, in general, they are not squeals of joy!
#5 - Happy Helpers
Toddlers love to help with EVERYTHING
from cooking dinner to unloading the dishes to
"helping" you go to the bathroom.
If you've got toddlers and they're driving you crazy in this regard,
take my advice...
enjoy it -because you're going to miss it!
{Trust me on this one!}
#4 - "Like this?"
When you're teaching a toddler,
you show them what to do and they say,
"Like this?"
And then they do it.
It's so fun.
Don't ask me about how to teach a teenager something.
I haven't figured it out yet.
#3 - Being Called Mommy
To a toddler,
any woman who is taller than them and has children
is their mommy.
It was fun to be called that again.
#2 - Snuggle Time
Those random moments
when they come up and snuggle in your nap
for no apparent reason.
Priceless.
{I could probably get Brad to snuugle in my lap,
but I don't think it would be quite the same.}
#1 - Rocking Someone to Sleep
I did it with all three of my own babies,
and I wouldn't trade those memories for anything in the world.
If you have little ones,
never miss a chance to rock them to sleep.
Time slips by so quickly
and you should take advantage of every minute.
So glad I did.
Thanks, Dave & Kyra, for letting me love your kids for a few days. It meant the world to me.
6 comments:
I love this, Melissa. It was good for me to read today because mine has been ultra cranky for two and a half days (a little virus). I do love all of those little things you wrote about. Thank you!
Just think sometime in the near future as our kids become adults and get married....there will be toddlers running around calling you grandma!LOL I loved this and it reminded me of when my kiddos were little. Not so anymore! My three oldest kids are taller than me now. Sheesh, where has the time gone?
{Melissa, you can come love my kids anytime!} I always get sad when Mason is out of a stage...knowing that it's my last baby!
Will you be my full-time nanny?! I loved your sweet list. It's true, I'm sure...I will miss having to discuss why I want the door closed while I'm going to the bathroom and why little boys shouldn't run around the block in the snow without shoes on. I'm sure I've only yet begun to know the joys of toddlers! I can't wait! Thanks for the voice of experience.
Good list... Eventually we will get to know what that is like! :)
Love you blog--no wonder you aren't on facebook! I've decided that I need to figure out how to work my blog (which I set up about 2 years ago). Your kids are adorable; it's fun to see them all grown up, though it does make us sad sometimes and wish for those toddlers. Amanda's already in college, if you can believe that.
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